The 2026 Seattle Childcare Search Guide

You never know if you have the complete list

When we moved to Seattle with our son, I did what every type-A parent does: I Googled. I asked ChatGPT. I made a spreadsheet. I called providers. I read Yelp reviews from 2019 and tried to guess if they were still accurate.

After about 40 hours of this, I thought I had a solid list.

Then I posted in a work Slack channel asking for recommendations, and three people immediately named programs I'd never heard of. Not because they were hidden — because I hadn't used the right keyword. One was a co-op that calls itself a "preschool" but takes 12-month-olds. Another was a home daycare that doesn't have a website. A third was a center that only shows up if you search "child development" instead of "daycare."

That was the moment I realized the problem. It's not that information doesn't exist. It's that there's no complete list, and you have no way of knowing what you're missing. Every parent I've talked to has the same story: you think you're done, and then someone mentions a name that changes everything.

The other problem is harder. Even once you find providers, you don't know how to evaluate them.

Nobody told me that teacher tenure is one of the strongest signals of quality — that if a place can't keep its staff for more than a year, that's a red flag, no matter how nice the website looks. Nobody told me that the state inspects every licensed provider and that those reports are public. I found that out weeks into my search, and when I did, I had to read tiny PDFs one by one on the DCYF website, squinting at findings and trying to figure out what "noncompliant with WAC 110-300-0165" actually means for my kid. Nobody explained why a parent co-op at $700 a month might give my kid a better experience than a corporate chain at $3,000.

This is a huge decision. For most Seattle families, childcare is the second-largest household expense after housing. And the entire process of making that decision felt piecemeal — researching in stolen moments between meetings, making calls during lunch, trying to compare places that describe themselves in completely different ways.

I'm a product manager. I build tools that help people make complex decisions with better information. So I did what I do at work: I built the tool I wished existed. I pulled every licensed provider from the state database, researched each one, visited in person, talked to parents, directors, and teachers, and created a framework for comparing them—so you can actually make an informed decision instead of guessing.

This guide is everything I learned. It's the resource I wish someone had handed me the day we decided to move to Seattle.

What childcare actually costs in Seattle

Before anything else, the numbers. Because nothing prepares you for this.

Age Group	Center-Based (monthly)	Home Daycare (monthly)	Annual Range
Infant (0–12 mo)	$2,500 – $3,600	$1,800 – $2,200	$21,000 – $43,200
Toddler (1–3 yr)	$2,000 – $2,800	$900 – $1,400	$18,000 – $33,600
Preschool (3–5 yr)	$1,500 – $2,200	$800 – $1,200	$15,000 – $26,400

A few things to know about these numbers:

• Infant care is the most expensive and hardest to find. Centers that charged $2,100 a month in 2017 now charge $3,500. Many centers have eliminated infant rooms entirely because they're too costly to operate.
• Two kids in care can cost more than housing. A family with an infant and a toddler at a mid-range center is paying $4,500 – $6,000 a month. That's $54,000 – $72,000 a year, before taxes.
• Prices go up 3–15% annually. Whatever you budget today, add 10% for next year.
• Home daycares are almost always cheaper — and in many cases, the quality is equal or better. More on this below.

The waitlist reality

• Start searching in your second trimester. This is not an exaggeration. Six to twelve months of lead time is standard for infant care.
• Plan to be on 8–12 waitlists simultaneously. Parents routinely report applying to 10+ programs. One parent reported being #451 on a single center's list.
• Many waitlists are theater. Here's something most parents don't realize: at a lot of places, the waitlist isn't really a queue. Providers assume that by the time a spot opens, half the families on the list have already found care elsewhere. So who actually gets the call? The parent who's been emailing every six weeks. The one who showed up for a tour. The one who asked a current family to put in a word. Persistence and visibility matter more than your position on the list.
• Existing families get priority. If a family already has a child enrolled, their next child jumps the line. This means new families can actually move down the list as enrolled families have more kids.
• Referrals from current parents matter more than your application. At many centers, a personal recommendation from an enrolled family moves you to the top. Ask everyone you know.

When a parent posted about waitlists in a Seattle Facebook group recently, they got 100+ responses in 24 hours. Every single one was some version of "it's brutal." This is not a problem that's getting better. Provider closures are accelerating, state funding is being cut, and early childhood educators in Washington earn $15–20 an hour — not enough to keep them in the field.

The seven types of childcare in Seattle

This is the part I wish someone had explained to me on day one. Not all childcare is the same product. Comparing a home daycare to a corporate chain to a co-op is like comparing a neighborhood restaurant to a fast-food franchise to a supper club. They serve different needs at different price points with different tradeoffs.

The waitlist playbook

Months 3–4 of pregnancy (or as soon as you know you'll need care)

• Start with our database — we've already pulled every licensed provider from the state registry and organized them by neighborhood, type, and age range. That's the spreadsheet you don't have to build.
• Filter by your neighborhood and the type of care you want. Use the category breakdown above to decide what model fits your family.
• Narrow to 10–15 providers. Then start calling. Ask: do you have current openings for [age]? If not, how does your waitlist work? How long is it? Do referrals help?

Months 4–6

• Apply to your top 8–12. Most waitlists have a small fee ($25–$100). Pay it. This is not the time to be selective about application fees.
• Schedule tours for your top 5–6. Go in person. Watch how the teachers interact with the kids, not how clean the lobby is.
• When you tour, ask about teacher tenure. "How long have your lead teachers been here?" If the answer is less than a year, that tells you something. (Our database tracks this so you can check before you visit.)

Months 6–8

• Follow up on every waitlist. A friendly email or call every 6–8 weeks keeps you visible. Many directors manage waitlists manually and give spots to families they've heard from recently.
• Ask current parents to put in a word. At many programs, a referral from an enrolled family is the single most effective thing you can do.
• Have a backup plan. If your top choices don't come through, what's Plan B? A home daycare? A nanny share? Don't wait until month 9 to figure this out.

Month 9 to start date

• Confirm your spot the moment you get an offer. Most programs give you 48–72 hours to accept. Don't ask for a week to think it over — the spot will go to someone else.
• If you're still on waitlists, keep following up. Spots open unexpectedly — families move, plans change.
• If nothing has come through, don't panic. Home daycares often have faster availability than centers. A nanny or nanny share can bridge the gap while you wait for a center spot to open.

How to check if a provider is safe and real

Here's something that surprised me: every licensed childcare provider in Washington is inspected by the Department of Children, Youth, and Families (DCYF), and those inspection records are public. I was months into my search before I learned this. No provider mentioned it. No parenting blog told me to check. And when I finally found the database, the reports were individual PDFs that I had to pull up one at a time — no summaries, no comparisons, no way to tell at a glance whether a finding was routine paperwork or something I should actually worry about.

So here's the cheat sheet I wish I'd had:

How to look up any provider

1. Go to Child Care Check on the DCYF website.
2. Search by provider name, location, or license number.
3. Look at the inspection history, complaints, and any enforcement actions.

What to look for

• License status: Should say "Licensed." If it says "License Suspended" or "License Revoked," stop there.
• Inspection frequency: Providers are inspected at least once a year. If there's no inspection in the last 18 months, that's unusual.
• Findings: Not all findings are equal. A finding about "incomplete paperwork" is different from a finding about "unsupervised children." Look at the nature and severity.
• Complaints: Check whether complaints were substantiated or unsubstantiated. One unsubstantiated complaint is not a red flag. Multiple substantiated complaints are.
• Pattern matters more than individual incidents. A single minor finding in five years is likely fine. Repeated findings of the same type suggest a systemic problem.

Money you might be leaving on the table

Seattle's Child Care Assistance Program (CCAP)

Most parents don't know this exists, or assume they earn too much to qualify. In 2025, Seattle expanded eligibility to 110% of the state median income:

• Family of 3 earning up to $128,724/year qualifies.
• Family of 4 earning up to $153,244/year qualifies.
• Average savings: $10,000 per year. Up to $807/month in co-pay support.
• There is currently no waitlist. They are actively enrolling.

Apply at seattle.gov/education/ccap.

Seattle Preschool Program (SPP)

Free tuition for most 3- and 4-year-olds in Seattle. Over 1,850 kids enrolled for the 2024–25 year. The program contracts with 200+ providers across the city. SPP sites near public schools and those offering extended hours fill fastest — apply early.

Federal Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit

You can claim up to $3,000 in childcare expenses for one child, or $6,000 for two, against your federal taxes. This is a credit, not a deduction — it directly reduces what you owe. If your employer offers a Dependent Care FSA, you can set aside up to $5,000 pre-tax for childcare expenses.

Your childcare search timeline

The month-by-month version of everything above. Screenshot this.

When	What to Do
Months 3–4	Start with our database. Filter by neighborhood, type, and age. We've already pulled the full provider list — you don't need to build a spreadsheet. Goal: narrow to 10–15.
Months 4–5	Check inspection records and reviews for your shortlist (we summarize these for each provider). Start calling to ask about availability and waitlist process.
Months 5–6	Apply to 8–12 waitlists. Pay the fees. Schedule tours for your top 5–6.
Months 6–7	Tour. Ask about teacher tenure, ratios, meals, availability, and what happens when a teacher is sick.
Months 7–8	Follow up on waitlists (every 6–8 weeks). Ask enrolled parents for referrals. Identify your Plan B.
Months 8–9	Apply for CCAP if eligible. Set up Dependent Care FSA through your employer.
Month 9 to birth	Accept any offer within 48–72 hours. Keep following up on waitlists. Line up bridge care if needed.
After birth	Confirm start date. Do a transition visit before the first day. Breathe.